In loving memory of a father, grandfather and husband whom loved me deeply Stephen W. Cook 12/30/57 -8/27/11
Lost in direction today and missing him so much .....thank you for all the kind words.
One of my favorite pictures of Steve with his grandchildren and a full head of hair ....and that's the way I am going to remember him
Please feel free to share your memories and stories of Steve, here. Even if you never got the chance to meet him, maybe you remember something that Debbie said, that made you laugh.
I remember when he drove through the Dallas area, and Debbie let me know he was close by. And there was no way I would let him be this close and not drive out to visit with him. He was a little dissappointed I didn't drive the R, he really wanted to see the new hood. But I had both of my boys with me and couldn't drive it.
We had dinner at an Itialian Rest. at the truck stop, the food was ok, but the company was better. Steve talked a lot about the funny, and sometime stupid things the other truck drivers said. He said he was going to write a book about all the things he heard.
He also talked about when he was younger, his mom got him a union job at one of the local car manufacturers. He said he could have kept a very cushy job, but he didn't feel right getting paid to do nothing on many occasions, he had a strong work ethic and even though he wondered if he made the right choice for himself and his family, he left to persue other things. He was passionate about his family, cars and he loved Deb very much. I could tell not only in the way he talked about her and their life that night but he showed it too!
I am very happy that I was able to spend time with him that night and at the Woodward/ Lansing Picnic !
God Rest Your Soul xoxo
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I am sorry I did not have the opportunity to meet the man that was so loved by so many. Lost at far to young an age, but watching over his family from a better place now.
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I am sorry I never got to meet Steve. I know I would have liked him.
May you rest in peace, Steve.
May God bless Debbie and all of Steve's loving family.
I had the opportunity to meet Steve at Maggie Valley - 2008. We were staying at Gina's place. I remember Debbie was very busy detailing her truck, but Steve and I were rocking in our chairs sharing a quiet conversation. We discussed our jobs and he told me many great and frustrating details about driving a truck. He was very "soft spoken" and what I considered a "very gentle giant of a man."
We are so sorry Steve lost his battle. He was a great guy and we always had alot of fun with him. We can now stop looking for his truck as we travel the highways. We know he's in a much better place. Rest in peace, Steve.
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I met Steve at the WDC in 2006. He and Jessica sold me my favorite SSR jacket at the LCC picnic in Lansing . He always impressed me as the quiet one. Always listening, calculating, and planning. Some men can say a lot without saying a lot. I wish Debbie and her family all positive thoughts and encouragement.
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We had a short visit with Steve during his and Debbie's only trip to the annual Laughlin Rally but through HRG's telling its though we've all known each other for years.
Peace be with his family and friends as he will always be remembered in your hearts.
From all I have read on this web-site, it sounds like Steve had a great life and was lucky to have a great wife to share it with. Rest In Peace in that truck stop in Heaven.
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Robert and I were lucky enough to meet Steve when he & Deb came way south for a vacation. SSRFather, Pasta Mike & his ma, and Rob & I met them at their hotel... My first impression was he was such a big guy... and with that, he and Deb hopped in a V Dub Bug rental! We all went down to Alabama Jack's and munched out on a big ol' plate of conch,shrimp, fish and God knows what else! Later Deb & Steve came back to the house for a few beers... I wish we'd had more opportunities. Back then I was sure we'd be doing it at least every winter... cancer sucks. Steve was a sweet man that sure loved his wife & family. Take care til we see ya again Steve. xoxo
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As I read this thread it was at post 1 that I realized that Steve is gone. I am speechless. So sad, so soon. My heart goes out to Deb and her kids at this time I have never met either Deb or Steve but thru the years on this forum it sure feels like I have.
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Woodward 2007 is one of my fondest memories. Debbie put so much effort into making that a great experience for all the participants. I had the opportunity to meet Steve at the Thursday night BBQ at their home.
I remember him as a great host, making sure everyone's needs were met.
Rest in Peace, Steve
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Gina, I borrowed your photo, hope thats ok
Of course it is anyone is welcome to borrow it and use it in their signature if they wish to.
There are so many fond memories of Debbie and Steve and our time together. Without a doubt our time spent in the FL Keys in the winter of '08 was a highlight. (My signature pic is from that trip).
Debbie and Steve had flown down for their anniversary. We were down already on winter vacation. We hooked up several times and hung out, went out to eat a few times and went to John Pennekamp State park for a glass bottom boat ride.
One night Danny was hangin over the seawall head first at our campground tryin' to nab some lobsters and he started sliding into the water. He wanted Steve to grab him so he wouldnt fall in. He yelled "Steve, grab my britches". It was a classic line that we have laughed about ever since.
Also when Steve was driving the truck he was often on I-40 (which were about 5 miles off of). If he had a layover down this way he would stop and spend the night or a few hours. I would make him a homecooked meal everytime. He was beginning to develop a fondness for southern food. He especially liked my tomato pie. I always think of him when I make one.
Below are a few pics from our time in the Keys. I am so grateful for that vacation time spent with them. It was the first time I think that we were all four together without Debbie or me having hosting duties to attend to. So it was some really good quality time together.
Susan and I are so sorry to here of Steve's passing. I met Steve this year at Maggie Valley. What a nice guys Debbie. We send our prayers and well wishes for you and your family. He will be surely missed by everyone that met him.
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My favorite memory of Steve is the night in Maggie Valley we all sat out in front of Gina's till the wee hours of the morning telling stories and laughing till we cried. I'm gonna miss you buddy. to Deb and family.
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What a beautiful tribute to Steve ....as I read through these stories it brings back great memories. Oh how we both loved to travel together and over our 28 years together we did just that!
Steve loved his "home" and his wishes were that we celebrate his after life here at the house. On Wednesday we are and have asked that his friends ride their Harley's in honor of Steve's passing.
Today I need to accept things the way they are....not because I don't deserve better ....but because acceptance leads to peace. Accepting the good and bad parts of life represents balance that we all need.
I have so many stories over our 28 years.....this being the most recent share:
On the day of his passing the funeral home left a red silk rose on Steve's hospital bed after they took him. When I entered the room and saw it I cried and smiled at the same time. Steve was never one to buy me real flowers (even though I loved them). On our 15th Wedding Anniversary he came home with a beautiful long stem rose box. Upon opening I thought look at how beautiful they are. Steve said look closer ........they were silk. He then said " honey these will last you a lifetime". Yes they have as today they are still in a flower arrangement that sits on my coffee table in the living room. Everytime I seen them we would talk about that day ....this was so Steve!
There was never a day where Steve didn't say "I Love You" and "You are Beautiful" to me and it didn't matter where he was...... be it a phone call when over the road or even out running errands. He always found the time to relay this. Talk about starting your morning or day off right ....he did just that! I think in a relationship we all need to learn what true love real means ....Steve knew and understood that better than anyone I've known. Even on is last day that morning in a hoarse, gurgly voice the first thing he said was "I Love You"
While always a Big Guy most steered away and was afraid of him ....auh but those of you whom didn't and took the time to converse with him you too found that he is a BIG OLE TEDDY BEAR and a man that had a lot of knowledge to share.
There is a peaceful, calmness that fills the air at the "Cook Home" as I now see that Steve fought to come home and leave this earth through his own doors...... a place he loved
Forever missed and loved ........Steve, Honeybunch, babe, Cookie, dad, and grandpa.
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Last edited by HotRodGirl; 08-29-2011 at 09:36 AM.
I met Steve and Debbie this year at Maggie Valley and was immediately stunned by Steve’s strength, Debbie said he had done most of the driving to Maggie. I was fortunate to share drinks and jokes over dinner with them; that still makes me smile ~ what a guy. He will be missed by old as well as new friends.
Meg
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Met Steve at their house in August '05 and talked to him same place in Aug '06. Quiet guy who didn't say much, but was concerned about everyone having a good time, something to eat and just our well being.
I'm sorry I didn't take the time to know him better, that's on me.
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It seems as if a bunch of friendships started on Gina's front porch! Ours is one of them. For as big a man that Steve is, he had a knack for being able to just disappear into the background. When we finally had the chance to sit a spell and swill some adult bevs and tell jokes and stories of irony till way too late at nite. We'll miss sitting with you Steve, but we'll keep in touch thru Debbie. Ge Easy, my friend........
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Stephen W. Cook 12/30/57 -8/27/11
Our deepest condolences… 
We all went down to Alabama Jack's and munched out on a big ol' plate of conch,shrimp, fish and God knows what else! Later Deb & Steve came back to the house for a few beers... I wish we'd had more opportunities. Back then I was sure we'd be doing it at least every winter... cancer sucks. Steve was a sweet man that sure loved his wife & family. Take care til we see ya again Steve. xoxo
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