My SSR: 2004 Redline Red SSR "HTRDGRL" Born On 8/19/2004 SSR Theme Song Chevrolet by Foghat
Thanks again everyone s
I know that time heals all wounds .....but when you've been with someone for 28+ years .....time is of no importance! Today I now understand many versions of the words cry, pain and sorrow. The type of cries I've had hurt so bad and come from deep within. Sometimes I loose my breath from the pain.
While on the surface I appear to be doing well deep inside I have a long road ahead of me. I'm lost without him by my side!!!
My SSR: 04 Redline with Mike's Aux fan, Tips, Spare tire; Greg's servo; K & N intake; Diablo; Budnik wheels
Debbie,
Great to see you back again. You have been missed, and good thoughts & prayers have been sent. Thanks for sharing, allow the healing to continue, and let us know if there's anything that we can do.
Keith & Sounida
Hi Deb, it was great to read your post, Sherry just asked me Mon. if the forum had heard from you. Hang in there girl, with God's love you will conquer this terrible pain that you are feeling. Thoughts and prayer are still going your way.
My SSR: 1BADDOX 2005 Redline Red 6-speed #20345 Build Date: 01/28/2005
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Originally Posted by HotRodGirl
Thanks again everyone s
I know that time heals all wounds .....but when you've been with someone for 28+ years .....time is of no importance! Today I now understand many versions of the words cry, pain and sorrow. The type of cries I've had hurt so bad and come from deep within. Sometimes I loose my breath from the pain.
While on the surface I appear to be doing well deep inside I have a long road ahead of me. I'm lost without him by my side!!!
We love you Deb
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Im glad to see you back as we all have missed you. It is true that time will heal all wounds but it is a very very long time.
Its been just over a year since we lost our little angel danni and tears still come to my eyes when i think of her like now. But the ache does lesson with family and freinds around. Missed your posts. Loving ya and missed ya..............
My SSR: 2004 Redline Red SSR "HTRDGRL" Born On 8/19/2004 SSR Theme Song Chevrolet by Foghat
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You haven't missed a thing Debbie. Been pretty boring without you.
Great to have you back.
As soon as I can get my **** together ....I have a lot of great information on the SSR that still needs to be shared I obtained a little more at the WDC of 2011 a box full that I haven't even looked at Will always keep those contacts open cause ya just never know
My SSR: Not an SSR owner, just make cool parts for them!
Debbie, its so good to hear from you. You have been in Melissa and my thoughts often. I realy dont have time for FB but Melissa pointed out to me that you sent a "Happy BD" which I never expected We look forward to seeing you again in the Keys and so very glad to see you back on the forum!
My SSR: 2004 Redline Red SSR "HTRDGRL" Born On 8/19/2004 SSR Theme Song Chevrolet by Foghat
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Welcome back Debbie as I have said in the past still looking forward to meeting you
I have always loved your posts You and Gina always make them look so sparkly and I always wanted to know how to do that ?
Hope to meet you someday
Love
Anne J
Mrs Duck
I'll teach you anytime It's so easy to do these animations and when you learn you'll say the same thing
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Debbie, its so good to hear from you. You have been in Melissa and my thoughts often. I realy dont have time for FB but Melissa pointed out to me that you sent a "Happy BD" which I never expected We look forward to seeing you again in the Keys and so very glad to see you back on the forum!
Steve's hospice team calls frequently to see how I'm doing. The calls are becoming lessor now mostly cause Chris can see that I am beginning to set goals and meet them. He's very happy to see the improvement I am making and asked that I consider helping out spouses that aren't doing as well. I told him I would be happy too and told him to pass out my phone number to those whom need it. I just hope they don't call when I'm having a bad day
I'll teach you anytime It's so easy to do these animations and when you learn you'll say the same thing
Steve's hospice team calls frequently to see how I'm doing. The calls are becoming lessor now mostly cause Chris can see that I am beginning to set goals and meet them. He's very happy to see the improvement I am making and asked that I consider helping out spouses that aren't doing as well. I told him I would be happy too and told him to pass out my phone number to those whom need it. I just hope they don't call when I'm having a bad day
your goal on this forum is to reach 30,000 posts some time this year
My SSR: 2006 Racy Aqua Blur 6spd Front end all Chrome/SS Tuned/ported
I love Moody Blue too!
Sure is good to see you posting and the sparkly Boop is back. You were my inspiration for buying my SSR before I even saw one in person. I owe you part of my permagrin, so please know there will be a day when you can wake up smiling again. Keep the photo of Steve by the bed. And as you can, keep the posts coming little sister. Joy and I will see you in the Keys!!!
Debbie: You are a much loved individual here on this freindly Fanatic Forum!
You are an inspiration to all here! You should never feel like a failure,what you have gone thru is ,IMO,the toughest thing a loving spouse could bare!
Whenever we are faced with such huge challenges,accept that we must turn it over to God. It's just too much negative energy for one to absorb.
Sometimes we may get angry at God for not answering our prayers,but know
all is part of a divine plan that each one of us contracts before we are born. We all
have a personel mission to accomplish here and we predetermine when we shall go home.Please know you are an earth angel to your family and your love looks in on you and wants you to be happy knowing he is in spirit and in perfect being,his heart will rejoice seeing you get past his physical loss,but knowing his loving spirit is with you always.Just remember,your smiles and laughter are his tremendous joy! Be happy in his well being and yours.You both are beautiful souls and we all here are honored to know you and we all send our continued love and healing.
My SSR: 2004 Redline Red SSR "HTRDGRL" Born On 8/19/2004 SSR Theme Song Chevrolet by Foghat
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your goal on this forum is to reach 30,000 posts some time this yearl
I forgot how and on the day's I checked in you were not here to help me ....WTH?
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Glad to see you again Debbie, please keep pushing forward (i know thats easy to say).
Steve will always be in your heart and you know he wants you to be happy and enjoy life.
Hugs from Big D.
Tony
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Originally Posted by Beach potato
Sure is good to see you posting and the sparkly Boop is back. You were my inspiration for buying my SSR before I even saw one in person. I owe you part of my permagrin, so please know there will be a day when you can wake up smiling again. Keep the photo of Steve by the bed. And as you can, keep the posts coming little sister. Joy and I will see you in the Keys!!!
I hope you are right ....I do smile today but it's just not the same. God I am not even the same person amazing how this changes your life inner and out
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Debbie: You are a much loved individual here on this freindly Fanatic Forum!
You are an inspiration to all here! You should never feel like a failure,what you have gone thru is ,IMO,the toughest thing a loving spouse could bare!
Whenever we are faced with such huge challenges,accept that we must turn it over to God. It's just too much negative energy for one to absorb.
Sometimes we may get angry at God for not answering our prayers,but know
all is part of a divine plan that each one of us contracts before we are born. We all
have a personel mission to accomplish here and we predetermine when we shall go home.Please know you are an earth angel to your family and your love looks in on you and wants you to be happy knowing he is in spirit and in perfect being,his heart will rejoice seeing you get past his physical loss,but knowing his loving spirit is with you always.Just remember,your smiles and laughter are his tremendous joy! Be happy in his well being and yours.You both are beautiful souls and we all here are honored to know you and we all send our continued love and healing.
Your inspirational words are much appreciated and very much how I feel today ....trying desperately to accept the challenges, never angry at God though (Steve yes ) ...the physical loss plays such hell on the person left behind. I do know that I would hate it if it was him having to deal with the physical pain. No one could have warned me for the aftermath ......it's something I have to go through even though I don't want too. There is no choice! A part of me died with him and a new personality is emerging....hoping for better then ever!
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My SSR: 2004 Redline Red SSR "HTRDGRL" Born On 8/19/2004 SSR Theme Song Chevrolet by Foghat
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glad to see you on here... I was thinking about you tonight..... took mrs out ot dinner
Puffy tacos at the same place we ate at.... mmm good everytime I eat there good thoughts about you... hope you are doing well......
You are such a tease I do remember what a long ass drive that was from your house to get those FABULOUS Puffy Tacos. Here, I am used to driving just down the road.....I thought then ......this is crazy
My SSR: 04 "Smokin' Ricochet" #10577 Stainless bling under the hood , MPD F/R Spoiler, MTI Dyno Tune
it gets better with time. There will be guilt because you will feel that somehow your having moments that this isn't on your mind is somehow wrong. Believe me, it isn't, it's just nature's way of healing.
Those of us that have been where you are, know where you are. Good to hear from you. wish I were closer, cause i'm pretty good at home repair!
See you in Maggie!
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before I even saw one in person. I owe you part of my permagrin, so please know there will be a day when you can wake up smiling again. Keep the photo of Steve by the bed. And as you can, keep the posts coming little sister. 
Joy and I will see you in the Keys!!! 
amazing how this changes your life inner and out 
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