The only company I've been able to come up with that has a fairly good supply of 19s is Colorado Customs. Check their website (
www.coloradocustom.com) to check out their wheel selection. They have two interesting wheels - the Waverly and the Boulder in their Billet series that might work for you.
They have another wheel that has a chrome reverse/baby moon look - the Rock Creek in their Superior series.
If you find a style that fits your needs, they will custom build the front and rear offsets, and the bolt pattern. Wheel selection is a very personal choice - no right or wrong, just a lot of different tastes.
I ordered mine through Newstalgia Wheels (
www.newstalgiawheel.com) David Coker handled the order for mine - very accomodating to work with, and actually got a better price from them than I could from Colorado. David will have the required offsets on file - tell him I sent you - it's got to be good for some brownie points.
I would recommend getting new tires installed at Newstalgia (if you plan to keep the stock wheels in case you return to original, or get a new SSR). Pricing on the tires was quite good, and if you order tires and wheels, they cover the mounting, balancing and shipping. It seemed like too much work to dismount tires from the stock wheels, and reinstall used tires on new wheels.
Good luck, and happy hunting.
Ray